Archive for September, 2008

Debates: WATCH ‘EM

If you are on the fence … spend some time watching what the candidates have to say during this incredibly important time.  If you don’t think that this election is important, for whatever reason, YOU ARE WRONG.  Educate yourselves.  And check out Andrea’s blog for some articles worth reading. 

You know where my vote’ll be. 

Barack Obama

Barack Obama

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Blessed

Yellow Rose
Today marks the 2 year anniversary of our appointment with Dr. George P. Henry at the Reproductive Genetics Center in Denver.  It was there — after 4½ days of not knowing how healthy of sick our third child would be — that we found out our Beanie was healthy.  Beanie was our final pregnancy and perhaps because we were briefly  thrust into that chasm that is scary and devastating, I am moved to check in with other families whose outcome has been different than ours.  There are several blogs I check in on, and they are listed to the right of this post, under “Blogs I Read”.  Take a moment to read their stories and do whatever it is you do — say a prayer, send out positive energy, meditate, empathize, send your love to someone you’ve never met – for we are better off for all those we let in to our hearts, minds, thoughts, and lives.

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Big Week

 
Beanie's Luminaries
Beanie’s Luminaries

So we had a pretty amazing week last week.  And I’m now coming down from my super-high to highlight our Stand Up Straight, Grand Junction event last Wednesday. 

Suffice it to say that I was proud to talk with our group of 30 people and recognize that we are participating in the movement toward chage.  And there are families and individuals in my community who will help me bring that change to Grand Junction.  I was proud to walk with my neighbors.  I am proud to call them my friends.  I am honored to join them in our battle for true equality. 

Yes, we were small-ish this year.  Check back next year for bigger and better and brilliant!

Part of The Group

Part of The Group

  

Peaceful Walk

Peaceful Walk

 

Friends

Friends

Main Street

Main Street

 

Marching For Equality
Marching For Equality

         

 
Standing Up!

Standing Up!

 
Reading Nana's Words

Reading Nana's Words

 

Our Circle of Support
Our Circle of Support

 

And in case you didn’t have a chance to read my statement that is visible on the national Seven Straight Nights For Equal Rights website, check it out here (by either clicking on the highlighted ”the national Seven Straight Nights For Equal Rights website” or the highlighted word “here”, Mom!)  There’s also a post below that I wrote.  Read it here.

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Goosebumps and Electricity

What more can I say?!  I mean, truly.  I was 20 feet from the man who should become the next President of the United States.  And everyone could feel the electricity in the air.  The energy shifted and all attention and focus was on the message Senator Obama was sending.  Sure, there was cheering.  But more importantly, we all were desperate to hear every word out of his mouth because IT.IS.IMPORTANT.  So, we quieted quickly.  And it was positive and empowering and incredible and unfathomable.  I get goosebumps anytime I talk about what I experienced yesterday and I tear up like I did standing with my children, watching history unfold.  The possibilities are endless and the hope is insurmountable.  My almost-8-year-old with remember where he stood as he listened to Senator Obama.  My 5-year-old will remember the Colorado blue sky and the rocks she tried to adopt and that we were in the presence of greatness.    

I could give you the whole rigmarole of how I missed both kids’ soccer games on Saturday to stand in line (with my 82 year old grandmother and dynamite mom, I might add!) for tickets to see Senator Obama, and then had my three children stand in line with me for hours and hours AGAIN on Monday to get through the 2 metal detectors they had set up for the thousands of people to get through.  I could go on and on about how we got there, and where we stood and who we met (wonderful, intelligent people), and how Chad was able to meet up with us …

But this isn’t about any of that. 
It’s about the goosebumps and electricity that rose up in all of us as Senator Obama took the stage.  It’s about the compelling force that made us all feel like we could make a difference and be a part of something bigger than anything we’ve ever been a part of before.  It IS about the tingle that creeps into my nose and forces warm, salty tears to my eyes when I breathe back in the possibilities of this nation and its promise.  It’s about respecting a man and his values, motivation, and dedication to a nation’s people … and the respect that that brings back to the title: The President of The United States.  And it’s also about what I saw and captured with my camera.  Here is what my children saw:

Red, White, Blue, and Obama

Red, White, Blue, and Obama

 

Colorado Sky and Obama
Colorado Sky and Obama

 

Change We Can Believe In

Change We Can Believe In

 

Just 20 feet away!

Just 20 feet away!

 

Senator Obama

Senator Obama

My grandmother said this is by and large the most important election of her life.  But it is of utmost importance to her grandchildren and great-grandchildren … those who are not able to vote and have a say in their futures yet.  It is up to us to make the best choices for our children and their futures, my friends. 

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HE’s COMING!!!!!!!

Hope Is On The Horizon
He.Will.Be.Here.  No joke.  Senator Barack Obama will be in Grand Junction on Monday. 
I’m still trying to catch my breath.

You can bet your sweet bippie that the kids and I will be there!

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Standing Up Straight in Grand Junction

Most of you know that I am a staunch supporter of equal rights for our gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender neighbors.  And if you didn’t know before, you do now.

I am a member of Atticus Circle, Soulforce, and the Human Rights Campaign.  These are organizations in which I believe with the whole of my being.  It is through Atticus Circle and Soulforce that I have planned a peaceful demonstration in Grand Junction

The statement I submitted to Seven Straight Nights for Equal Rights is worth repeating here.  Please read it and consider the difference you’d like to make … 

My three children bring me clarity like no other force can.  It is through their eyes that I choose to see the world.  I imagine I feel like most mothers feel — that our love is powerful, protective, and ever-present.  I am confident that my children will forever know this in my love for them, but not all children are as fortunate. I am lucky in that my desire to be a mother has never been threatened or questioned or denied me.  But again, not all women are given the same opportunities extended to me. 

 

The United States of America prides itself on being a “free nation.”  Our nation’s Declaration of Independence clearly states: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable rights, that among these are Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Happiness.”  We have fought other civil rights wars.  I was not alive to participate in those battles, but I am present now and I stand to be counted.  This is my civil rights war because I am not faced with hatred, discrimination, and inequalities every day, but it is my responsibility as a mother and a member of my community to stand up and demand that the same rights extended to me must be extended to the thousands of GLBT children, teens, and adults facing discrimination every day.  It is my duty not only to speak of acceptance, love, equality, and support for our GLBT neighbors, but to work to achieve change in our own community.  My hope is that by being a straight ally in our community, my children will participate in a shift in our culture — a shift towards acceptance, love, support, and equality — and live the days following that shift.

 

 

It is because I have only a brief amount of time to impart my values upon my three impressionable minds that I have decided to coordinate Grand Junction’s Action.  Every person deserves to experience the power of loving as a parent.  Every loving couple deserves the opportunity to create their family.  Every committed couple deserves to have their commitment recognized by society and our government.  Every person deserves to live a life of peace and happiness.

 

Stand with me, Grand Junction!

This won’t be the last time I bring this up, friends.  This is important shit.  No kidding. 
Stand up.  Embrace your neighbors.  Write your representatives.  Live with love and acceptance. 
Be the change.

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